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Welcome to My Reset Years
Most mornings start the same way around here: the rush of getting my 11-year-old out the door on time while living in 399 square feet, cats underfoot looking for a meal, and me trying to convince myself that stretching counts as exercise. This little corner of the internet isn't just about tiny living, although living small has absolutely changed me. It's about what happens when you reach a point in life where you start asking the bigger questions. What does middle adulthood
Shawna Frazier
May 141 min read


From House to RV: Our Downsizing Story + Checklist
There was nothing extravagant about our little cul-de-sac home. At just 1,200 square feet, it wasn’t large, luxurious, or anything you’d see featured in a magazine. But it was ours. It held years of birthdays, movie nights, scraped knees, family dinners, and quiet moments that made up everyday life. Still, sometimes it’s not the size of the house that determines whether you stay, but the environment around it. Over the years, our neighborhood slowly became a source of constan
Shawna Frazier
Jun 26 min read


Little Home, Big Love
In 2021, we sold our house and made what felt like a bold but simple decision, buy an RV with cash and park it in my parents’ backyard. At the time, it seemed almost exciting. Minimal debt. Simpler living. Freedom from the crushing weight of bills. We barely overthought it. “How hard could it be?” we told ourselves. At least we’d be debt free. The first night in the RV told a different story. I cried quietly into my pillow, trying not to wake anyone up. I wasn’t just uncomfor
Shawna Frazier
May 252 min read


Running on Dairy & Lists
I have accountability for every aspect of my life. I show up to work. I remember the doctor appointments. I keep track of volleyball tournaments, schedules, grocery lists, deadlines, bills, birthdays, and whether or not there’s enough milk in the fridge. I help keep my husband’s business afloat while trying to keep our home from turning into complete chaos. I take accountability during arguments. I apologize when I raise my voice at Emma. I carry the invisible clipboard of ev
Shawna Frazier
May 192 min read
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